Tuesday, November 19, 2013

A 'Long' Day.

The title of this post is kind of what the blog was named after and the reason it was started. Just to document the random, sometimes mundane, occurances that make up our life together. Over the past few years sooo much has changed since I started this blog and I've wrote on all kinds of topics mostly about our life, miscarriage, my love for adoption, pregnancy, and of course my love of Jesus. 

I have not been writing lately because I am always feeding, wiping, or helping some little person:) My days are very full, but so is my heart here lately.

Thankful to have this space that I have documented life's big and small events over the past few years and looking forward to whatever surprises lie ahead.

Anyhow...

The past month it has really set in that there is only one of me and three children now.

I have realized that I will never ever see the bottom of the laundry hamper as a family of 5.

I will be cleaning up others poop daily for many more years.

Keeping crumbs off the floor is impossible.

Spilled milk is just to be expected. 

Everyday.

Whining and tantrums are normal for my little coworkers.

The number of questions I answer from a curious 4 yr old daily would blow your mind.

Thankfully I also get to hear for the 3rd time the first giggles or little voice say 'mommy'.

Listen to my 4 year old 'read'(from memory) his little brother and sister a book.


Watch baby D dance around the room with a huge grin.

Sneak in to pray over them while they sleep.

And have the opportunity to be here for all the moments in between.
 
If you had asked me one year ago if I thought I'd be a mother of three children at this time I would have never guessed it.  

I keep coming across this same old saying over and over the past few weeks "The days are long, but the years are short." Now as I'm on my 3rd child I'm seeing the truth in it so much more.

Being a stay at home mom many days can feel like they go on forever, so how is it that 4.5 years have already passed since I began this journey??

One thing I have figured out is being a mother is a seriously important job...but you have to be able to laugh at all that comes your way. Life with little people is full of messy surprises:)

So I was sort of recapping just a few of the bloopers from the past few weeks in my mind earlier....

Right before weather turned cold we were enjoying an afternoon outside. Baby D thought it was real cute to put a TON of sand in his hair when I wasn't looking. Rubbing over to try to shake it off only worked it deeper into his hair.

So to get it out I may or may not have attempted holding him upside down to shake it out, using a vacuum hose, finally following up with a bath in which he was laid back to 'soak'.  Most the sand remains trapped in all the tiny curls.

I had to give up...the afro has won. 

While trying to solve this fiasco with tips online I came across the '10 commandments of black hair care for white parents' (for real) and #7 is thou shalt avoid sandboxes. 

Lesson learned.

As it is a right of passage into toddlerhood D unrolled a roll of toilet paper.  Instead of using my 1 free minute tediously rolling it back up I wadded it up by the toilet and whoever is using the potty has to gather some from the pile on the floor till it is gone.

Breyton also pooped all down his legs, pants, and side of the toilet. Yes my ONE potty trained child.  Never a good thing to hear, "Mom hurry! There is poop EVeRYWhERE!!" Apparently, he said  was standing up peeing when all the sudden he had to poop and couldn't turn around to sit in time.....

You are welcome for that story. I'm a girl so this makes no sense to me, but according to my 4 year old this really happens to boys.

Have I mentioned I've really lost my mind lately(hopefully temporarily!)...Including an embarrassing incident of thinking I left my phone in the car while mason and split up in Walmart to tackle the list more quickly. He has the keys of course. After searching all over Walmart, running into a church friend and having her help me search for mason, then finally resorting to having mason paged over intercom and standing there hoping he shows up...is the moment my phone starts ringing...in my pocket..where it was all along.

Also, not surprisingly I leave the diaper bag places. Lyla better be glad her food is attached to me or she may have gone hungry a few times!

Must say the boys were cracking me up in the car the other day. Breyton had fallen asleep while D was still awake, which is rare! Anyways D is reaching over wacking Breyton in the head and laughing...then suddenly Breyton wakes up for a brief second just to wack D back and goes right back to sleep lol.


They are also already starting the "He's touching me"/"he's looking at me" stuff during the car rides. Gotta love it!

This is the life right here...swimming in a big bubble bath to fight off cabin fever from the cold weather.

Our beautiful tree had been up for about a week. Started out looking all cozy and neat like this...

  And the other night ended up like this....

Should probably be on our Christmas card right?  

That's just a few of the millions of things that go on in our household.

I must say we laugh a lot in our home.... that and Jesus is what keeps things going around here.

Also, helps to get some big smiles like this every morning:)






Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Lyla~1 month old.

November 12th, 2013-baby girl is already 1 month old! 

@ 1 month:
•You love milk.
•Have been held probably 98% of your life so far.
•Have your daddy 100% wrapped around yor finger.
•Adored by your older brothers.
•Have dramatic facial expressions. 
•Starting to get 'real' smiles we think.
•Love baths and the sound of running water.
•Lifts head when on tummy.
•Gaining weight at a good rate and are about 7 1/2 lbs...starting to get some chubby cheeks and rolls.
•Have not had a bottle yet.
•Sleeps mostly 2 hr stretches at night, but occasionally give mom 3-3.5 hrs in a row.
•Dark brown hair.
•Dark grey blue eyes.

And loved beyond measure.









Monday, November 11, 2013

"That's my brother."

The boys playing together outside today was probably one of the funniest things I've seen in a long time. The things Breyton says to baby D and all the crazy things they come up with are priceless.  You just have to be there to truly understand!! They are best friends and I wonder what they ever did without each other!

They have been playing in all the leaves everyday and they just love it! D always has a ton of leaves stuck in his wild hair:)

Earlier baby D was crossing over our rock drainage that flows through front yard...it was his first time doing it alone, but he was trying to get to Breyton. And Breyton did not want me to help him bc he knew D could do it! Anyways, Breyton is over there cheering him on and clapping telling him, "Your doing a great job buddy! Keep coming! You can do it!". Then when baby D finally makes it across Breyton helps him saying, "Give me a high five you did it! Your the coolest little buddy!"

Then Breyton gets a football and wants D to play catch with him....if only I had a video of them during this!! I did get a few pics here's their play by play....

Throwing the ball...

B running up and embracing D in a big hug for a good throw lol....

Tackling each other.,.

Again...

Then of course lil sis enjoying the beautiful weather as well!

Then they rode this tractor together ALL morning. D loved being pulled in the trailer while B drove all over papa's farm.


Those two boys come up with some new game everyday and run through the house laughing hysterically. You just have to know D's face though...he has a smile that can light up any room! His whole face smiles😄...everyone always comments on his smile. 

It's pure joy.

I would do anything to know that they will for sure have the opportunity to grow up together in our home as brothers...but no matter what the future holds these two have a bond that won't be broken. They are brothers for life! I saw this quote from Remember the Titans when Julius visits Gerry in the hospital and the nurse says, family only....I love the response because it's fimilar.

Breyton always loves to tell everyone, "That's my brother."



Saturday, November 9, 2013

Lyla's birthday pictures.



My dear friend and photographer sent me our pictures from Lyla's birth day. Finally getting a moment to share some of them!  I seriously can't believe its been 4 weeks since this day!!


These first two photos were taken by my hubby on his phone when we first were admitted. My last 'belly' pics!

A quick smile because I'm finally here to meet my baby girl! Gotta love that flattering gown though.


Then I'm thinking ok that's enough already;)


 The rest are what was captured by Danielle Nicole Photography:

 A long hallway to walk when in labor.
 
  Birthing suite 12 on October 12th.
 
Breathing through a contraction.
 
Leaning forward and rocking through the pain was the only way I could cope. Laying on my back probably would have killed me!

Breyton was there by my side through pretty much my whole labor because family hadn't had time to arrive yet...and really he wanted to stay with mommy.


My little buddy was FULL of questions. Can you tell mommy may be getting a little tired of 'chatting' while in pain? lol
 

 
 
Here I'm wondering where the heck is the epidural guy!?? He didn't make it in time of course, but that's what this face is thinking.

 Still asking, "WHERE IS HE????"

A brief moment between contractions where I could smile:)

Sitting up here to get ready for the epidural....this is also pretty much the moment that I realized that I was not getting the epidural because baby was coming AND VERY SOON!
 
A few minutes later holding my baby girl on my chest! Welcome to the world Lyla!


                Possibly in shock here lol. Can't believe I'm holding my daughter!
                                      

        Relief!!! I did it and it was worth it;)


 Breyton actually looking and smiling so good....all this photo is missing is baby D!

       Checking out brand new addition.


 
Breyton was so curious and excited about his lil sis! It was so fun to see his reaction...he immediately was enthralled with her.


Breyton didn't want to leave my side for anything!



These were some of the best moments. We got to have hours of skin to skin bonding before they took her to be weighed and measured.


Precious girl did not want to be taken from mommy and messed with!





                                                                     Bonding<3







                                                            A very proud daddy.


                                                            Love these two!



Thank you Danielle for capturing these and many more moments. I know we will cherish them for a lifetime!